The lessons to learn in Charleston go beyond just removing the Confederate Flag from the Capital!




Is it important that South Carolina take down the Confederate Flag from their capital?  Yes, of course it is! Even more so in the aftermath of such a hateful and disastrous killing at the Church of Emanuel this symbol of the past, of slavery, of segregation and hate must come down.

At the same time, we should not let this be how we manifest a healing from this incident I am sorry to say.  We first must recognize that this was a crime of hate, of bias, of racism, from a young man that was taught or learned to believe on his own that he was superior to others.  Not because of the deeds he did to help others.  Not because he was bright and graduated to become a researcher.  Not because he went to that church to learn from others and experience a worshiping congregation that is warm and loving.  No, it is because the color of his skin is white.  On top of that, he was taught to believe other colors of skin, most notably black, are inferior to his own.

If we walk away pulling down the Confederate Flag and don't start out looking inside of ourselves we will miss the first lesson.  We all have a potential to have racists thoughts.  We all have the potential to believe in our personal superiority over others, and most notably we have the ability to transfer those feeling of hate and divisiveness to the next generation.  We must see this as a moment to pass on the learning that came from this church when those most afflicted by this killing stood up and forgave the killer, and came together this week to worship again.

If we walk away from pulling down the Confederate Flag, and don't learn that we cannot just take down history and slavery's impact on society, again we have failed to learn.  Slavery, and most notably its impact on society over a 100 years later is still not over.  The history of slavery, the belief in the ownership of another human, is not something that goes away by just the turn of time.  The statistics of incarceration, of poverty, of opportunity for black Americans is not on par with other races.  We must realize these challenges are not just racism as it exists in the 21st century but continue as a society that has not totally healed or repented for the sins of slavery in the first place.

If we walk away from pulling down the Confederate Flag in South Carolina, and say the lessons learned from this heinous act of hate is a "Southern" lesson then once again we have failed to learn.  Racism, feelings of superiority by race, are not and were not limited by the Mason Dixon line.  The act of superiority, the determination that a black man was less of a citizen than a white man was an agreed to law within our own constitution of the United States.  Not dare to mention the treatment of our early country to the Native Americans that were already here.  If we don't again look into each of ourselves for that seed of racism whether we live in Georgia, South Carolina, or Rhode Island and realize our potential to hate then we have not learned the right lesson here.

The lesson to me is clear.  We must all realize that either through direct teaching, or through just living our lives, we have grown to have some feelings of racism at times.  If you go to a party and look around and there is not a rainbow of colors around you is that because of chance or because we grew to be closer to those that look like us.  Yes, we have a long way to go to not see the colors of skin but see each of us human.  It is hard to teach those that have passed a certain age, but we can learn that as the next generation grows we need to teach them that the color of our skin is nothing more than the color of the walls of our house.  The heritage of our past, the heritage of generations of those that share that color are necessary to learn and document, but, the color alone does not determine the value of an individual.  It is their actions, their heart, and the deeds as they are with others that matters.

South Carolina taking down the Confederate Flag will show the country and the world that we Americans do learn from our mistakes, and we do love all the people of our country.  Learning the lessons beyond that moment, and trying to eradicate the intrinsic hate of racism will take much more effort and time.  We need to see our world as a young child does before he or she is taught the differences.  A child can see their parents, and learn from example, so it isn't just words we must communicate but remember our actions are what will be seen and learned from.  More than words, our actions will be the example from what they see and hear.  It will take overt actions from many of us to make sure that the generations after us are first taught to love each other, admire our differences, and most of all see all humans as equal.


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