OK... Have you Seen Grace and Frankie on Netflix?




OK... Have you Seen Grace and Frankie on Netflix?

First, I love Jane Fonda and Lilly Tomlin, and I really want to like this show.  But, it has some problems... that may or not be apparent to those of you of the straight persuasion.  Or maybe, you do?

First, Jane Fonda looks great and I am jealous that she is 77 and looks maybe 60.  Whomever is her surgeon should get an award and maybe she is living proof that yoga and the workout tapes really were a missed opportunity for me in my earlier life.

Second, and more seriously, there is more chemistry between Jane Fonda and Lilly Tomlin in the first three minutes of the show than there is in the whole show between Martin Sheen and Sam Waterston.  Jane Fonda lights up the screen and Lilly Tomlin is the new age mother one may have wished for.  When they are bantering together there is real charm and honestly as long as Jane Fonda is in the scene the show is bearable.

Whomever writes the parts for Martin Sheen and Sam Waterston doesn't know what gay men are really like, and to be honest are not sure how to create chemistry between them on the screen.  Or, Martin Sheen and Sam Waterston can't act or want to assure nobody watching the show would ever mistake them for being gay.

Honest, they aren't over the top flaming queens.  They aren't some closet cased late middle aged men.  They are two dimensional characters who have no passion or excitement or even some kind of charm about their new lives together.  I can imagine wanting to stay in the house at the shore but the house that the men are in looks like a flaming pink house with the charm of Pepto Bismol.

They should write season two, and flip this and the gay couple should be Jane and Lilly, and let the men figure out what passion might really be.



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